Williams/Bradfords Return

The families have both been kept very busy now with keeping up not only everyday life but there therapy tools and practices as well. As we know one of the Daughters is a therapist herself, while her younger brother and Sister are in very demanding fields of work as well. Her brother builds homes, and Sister is a very skilled office worker now for a high demand company too. There Mother is a wonderful Nurse and father is a retired carpenter himself who is now disabled but loves his family very much still and wants very much for there therapy to work and be successful for them to all do better with each other and there own lives as well too. So these are the Williams family group then there is the Sister-in law married to the only Brother and Son here, she is also a very skilled computer worker as well and a great wife to the Son of this family a good person to have in therapy caring and understanding as well. Then there is the eldest Daughters biological family members and her Mother's Mother as well known only as grandma self, since she was out of the families lives for so very long caring only for her own self life another part of group therapy's they all help there dear sweet nurse Mother to deal with as well too. The Eldest daughter Kristy is always and forever in need and search of more family closeness and connections having had hidden feelings of abandonment for so many years now from her biological family members the Bradfords. She is barely only able to bring herself to trust her grandmother enough to write to now about her life and share recent photo's too. They are a family of money and hard workers, but very close minded about just how one's life should go and Kristy is just the opposite really of them and knows they would just never fully see eye to eye on many things. So she still keeps a safe distance to protect her own heart now. Not, much has changed yet, except that Kristy's Brother Alan and his wife Twilla have been much more supportive of her and her Sister Mellissa is much more distant all the time and more focused on her boyfriend and her own lifestyle now too. Which all seems well enough too Kristy too she is very happy for her little Sister now knowing this is what she had always wanted unlike herself. Kristy just has so little trust left for a fair relationship of any kind now really. Her Mother and Father as always are very great not perfect of course but enough of what she needs now and she loves them very much too of course. Kristy's secret hopes and prayers now are much the same as always though for more financial freedom of her own, less fear,anxiety,and depression in her life too, and just to be able to share more days of love with her family members too now. Help them a little more with money at times too would be good for her self esteem and them too. This, is where all stand for now lets see how things move forward. Kristy is a struggling artist too selling her works online now. More info. on these families is coming soon so stay tuned. :)

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Day 26 of Williams/Bradfort Family Therapy Support Network

Now was Thomas's turn for his three issues, he said how much he loved and appreciated his 3 children and for them to not change for anyone! There were 3 yeahs to this issue Emelie read. Then to the issue of needing more helpful activities to alleviate depression and anxiety issues, there were 6 yeahs to this issue also. Then to the issue of all the music being played and that he liked every one's music and we're not to argue over it. There were 6 votes of yeah for this as well. Emelie told Thomas to take what his family has voted and be secure, in how he deals with it from there on out. They now listened to " Redneck Woman" by Gretchen Wilson. Then Emelie asked that they put in three more issues they were having trouble with, that she would file for voting on the following week. They cleaned up. End of Day 26

Day 25 Williams/Bradfort Families Therapy

Today was Bella's turn for her 3 issues, Emelie passed out the voter ballots. Standing with the top hat waiting, while they listened to Cher sing, "Do You Believe In Life After Love". She collected the ballots in Grandpa's old top hat, then tallied up the scores. She read them. Number one, received her feelings of hurt and anger about some decisions concerning Emelie's living situation back at home again. There were 5 nays that this was not a bad thing for Emelie but a good thing and 1 yeah, of course from Bella,they all knew. Number two, Bella believed she understood there disabilities, well enough, since going through a physical impairment of her own everyday. There were 5 nays and 1 yeah, the yeah again probably was Bella's. Bella believes that certain person's are taking advantage of other family members financially. There were 5 nays and only 1 yeah, the one yeah being Bella's again. Emelie told Bella now feel secure in what your family has voted today, and do with it what you think is best for everyone involved. They cleaned up the meeting room listening to, Gretchen Wilson's,"Here For The Party" one of Janie's C.D.'s. End of Day 25

Day 24 William/Bradfort Families Therapy Network

Today they listened to Pussycat Dolls "I Hate This Part" Emelie's CD. They voted on Janie's 3 issues. Number 1, her children must grow up more, and know that you cannot fully understand another's disabilities unless you are that person. Number 2, do not worry so much about Dad and Grandpa's health issues, this makes it harder on them not easier. Number 3, it's very mature how Aiden and Winnie are handling there family issues and she's very proud of them. Emelie collected the voters ballots in the big top hat, then tallied the scores up. She read the votes, there were 4 yeahs and 2 neys to the issue of them maturing more now, and realizing they just can't know what another person is going through unless you are that person. There were 6 votes for yeah, they did understand worrying made things much harder on Dad and Grandpa. There were 6 votes for yeah, Aiden and Winnie are handling there family issues very well. Emelie said, so, Mom you can now take with you how your family has voted on your issues, and move forward in the way you see to be the best for all. They cleaned up the meeting room, while listening to Thoma's ACDC C.D,"Dirty Jobs Done Dirt Cheep." End of Day 24

Day 23 Williams/Bradfort Families Therapy Network Support

Emelie choose her own 3 issues to go through this day. listened to Madonna's "Like A Virgin" CD. Number one, she read. The control, that she had no say in the matter of where she lived or not. Number 2, she felt Bella did understand the families disabilities allot more than she let on, she just didn't want to hurt feelings or alienate certain family members. Number 3, left behind, yet totally unprepared to move forward, as of yet anyway. Then she passed out the voters cards, they voted, then she collected them in the old top hat. She talied up the scores. There were 5 nays to she had no say on were she lived and 1 yeah obviously her own yeah, that she indeed did not have any say. Then only one yeah, to that Bella did understand and 5 nays that she did not understand much at all yet. Then, 6 yeahs, surprisingly to the fact that she was left behind, yet not yet ready to move forward, as of yet anyway. So, clearly Emelie had more to think about here, but she still did feel confident in some of what she already knew to be true here, as well. They ended the meeting listening to Aiden's Nirvana, "Smells Like Teen Spirit" CD. End of Day 23